Learn, Share, Grow – “Why Most People Will Never Be Successful”

The Blue Courage team is dedicated to continual learning and growth.  We have adopted a concept from Simon Sinek and his team called “Learn, Share, Grow”.  We are constantly finding great articles, videos, and readings that have so much learning.  As we learn new and great things, this new knowledge should be shared for everyone to then grow from.

In this article on inc.com, Benjamin Hardy discusses what makes a person successful.


Key Learnings:

  1. If you focus on the low-quality things in life- you will have low to mediocre outcomes. When you focus on the positive, high quality things in life- the less you can justify the low quality, and you begin to evolve expecting only the higher quality in your choices and outcomes. It’s important to understand all bad habits are difficult to give up, but is necessary to have that healthy life you desire. As we grow and evolve we realize what is really important to us.

  2. How you do things affect everything else in your life. You must remove everything you hate in your life, so that your daily life can be filled only with things you highly value.

  3. When focusing on core essentials that mean the world to you- and succeeding- you will dominate in all areas of your life. You will be living intentionally & congruently, have momentum & balance, and be who you truly want to be. Sometimes to better ourselves can mean in a spiritual, physical and relational way.

  4. Don’t “major in minor things”. If we continue to focus on little things in life, we can never grow. When you begin to evolve and progress, living on a daily basis with your values and ideals- you feel happier, more present, pursue bigger dreams with bigger ambitions, more resilient, and you will live at a higher frequency.

Major take away:

Success comes down to focusing what is important and of high value to your heart and soul- when you can identify those few things and focus on your energies to them, all else begins to fall into place, and you become successful in all areas of your life and space. It means balancing your life in a healthy manner because when we do that we become successful.

Article: Changes in Policing Take Hold in One of the Nation’s Most Dangerous Cities (NY Times)

Changes in Policing Take Hold in One of the Nation’s Most Dangerous Cities

It’s a sort of Hippocratic ethos: Minimize harm, and try to save lives. And in Camden, N.J., residents are noticing the results.

APRIL 2, 2017
CAMDEN, N.J. — Every few months, the police chief here asks which officers wrote the most tickets.

Elsewhere, this might lead to praise, but in Camden — where 40 percent of residents live below the poverty line, the murder rate compares to that of El Salvador and one of the most interesting experiments in American policing is underway — Chief J. Scott Thomson sees aggressive ticket writing as a sign that his officers don’t get the new program.

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Article: Kansas City Police Department’s PAL program is changing lives (The Kansas City Star)


Kansas City Police Department’s PAL program is changing lives

KCPD Chief Darryl Forté will be recognized Monday for his dedication to the Police Athletic League

KCPD’s ‘PAL’ is a model for the rest of the nation and has lent its help to areas such as St. Louis County

The organization that benefits children depends on the dedicated work of police and community donations

Read more here: http://www.kansascity.com/sports/spt-columns-blogs/vahe-gregorian/article72246727.html#storylink=cpy

Article: Six Easy Ways to Incorporate Mindfulness into Your Workday, From Start to Finish (Huffington Post)

Six Easy Ways to Incorporate Mindfulness into Your Workday, From Start to Finish


Six Easy Ways to Incorporate Mindfulness into Your Workday, From Start to Finish

02/15/2017 12:49 pm ET | Updated 3 days ago

Mindfulness. More than a buzzword? Absolutely. With giants like Google, Target and General Mills investing in mindfulness, it’s time for all organizations to take a closer look.

What is Mindfulness?

So what is mindfulness? The first thing to realize is that the concept of mindfulness is not new. It’s an ancient mental methodology that enables you to control your attention, enhance your awareness and see things more clearly. In everyday terms, it’s a way to get out of “autopilot,” a mode that we easily fall into in our day-to-day lives. Instead, it’s a practice of consciously and deliberately directing our attention to the present moment, and experiencing it in a non-judgmental way.

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Blue Courage’s Michael Nila on Education as the Foundation for what a Police Officer Does

On a recent trip to Columbia, Michael Nila, Blue Courage’s founder and managing partner, visited with the Columbia National Police.  Here he is in a brief clip speaking on education being the foundation for everything that a police officer does.

Article: Nighttime Encounter Leads to Unlikely Friendship…(CBS News)

Great story of a cop and a teen…and an unexpected relationship…

By STEVE HARTMAN CBS NEWS December 2, 2016, 7:35 PM

Nighttime encounter leads to unlikely friendship between white cop, black teen

BENICIA, Calif. — It had all the makings of bad situation. Late at night, in an industrial section of Benicia, California, officer Kirk Keffer says he spotted a shadowy figure in a dark hoodie.

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We all experience various levels of stress throughout the day. As stressful situations occur – a difficult conversation, a conflict with another individual, a project deadline, an argument with a family member, the traffic in the morning’s commute – these experience build upon each other, can be toxic to your health and could negatively affect those around you. Taking a moment to quiet your mind and interrupt the pattern of stressful thoughts can reset your attitude, actions, and reactions. Our 90-second stress buster is a tool to help you combat the stresses of the day.

Click Here to practice the 90-second stress buster, graciously done by davidji as part of Blue Courage’s Guided Meditation.


Nobility of Policing Book
Now available in a soft cover version!

This inspirational book takes a look into the lives of law enforcement professionals: the challenges, the nobility, and the contribution of America’s guardians. This book is about the profession of policing and the men and women who safeguard our freedoms. In doing so, they honor the Nobility of Policing.
Purchase your copy today! (Click Here)


Blue Courage for Corrections/Detention Officers

Available in 2017

Blue Courage is excited to include our new course available in 2017, Blue Courage for Corrections/Detention Officers! For more information, Contact Us!


A Law Enforcement Poem

After one of our Blue Courage classes, a participant shared a poem that she wrote with one of her Blue Courage instructors:

A poem written by Anna Briceno with the Town of Mount Hope, NY Police Department

After the events in Dallas I felt anguish and pride. I knew that there was so much inner turmoil and I needed to get some of it down on paper. I wrote this poem, which seems to have some relevance to the class, as a way to purge and express my feelings about the events and work overall. Just wanted to share:

Now I lay me down to sleep
The horrors of the day I keep
I fight the demons every night
So you can wake safely in the morning light

Now I lay me down to sleep
The sheepdog’s vow I swear to keep
If one should stray in the darkness of night
I’ll keep it safe ‘til the suns bright light

Now I lay me down to sleep
My head held high, my pride I keep
The thin blue line swells wide for all
Together we stand, together we fall

Now I lay me down to sleep
I watched my fellow brothers bleed
Their blood ran red, the same as you
But still you took them way too soon

Now I lay me down to sleep
One eye open I always keep
I will stand tall no matter what they do
I will stand tall with my brothers and sisters in blue

Now I lay me down to sleep
My soul so heavy from the pain I keep
The tears burn my pillow every night
But I will rise again to fight
If I should live another day
I pray the Lord to guide my way.

Media Advisory: Michael Nila of Blue Courage to Receive Attorney General Award for Meritorious Public Service

Media Advisory

October 27, 2016

Contact: Jocelyn Little (702) 277-8518, info@bluecourage.com


Michael Nila of Blue Courage to Receive Attorney General Award for Meritorious Public Service

Attorney General Loretta Lynch will present the Attorney General’s Meritorious Award for Public Service to Michael J. Nila on November 10, 2016 at the DAR Constitution Hall in Washington, DC. The ceremony is the 64th Annual Attorney General Awards Ceremony. There is only one award for this category and Michael J. Nila, the founder of Blue Courage, is the sole recipient.

This award is the top public service award granted by the Department of Justice and is designed to recognize the most significant contributions of citizens and organizations that have assisted the department in the accomplishment of its mission and objectives.

Michael J. Nila is a retired Police Commander with 29 years of service with the Aurora, IL Police Department. Mr. Nila is a dynamic and inspirational leader who has spent the past 10 years developing the curriculum and infrastructure to support the Blue Courage Training Program. Mr. Nila has worked to inspire law enforcement officers to fully understand the nobility of policing, and to embrace their role as guardians of our rights and freedoms.

With Mr. Nila’s leadership and passion, over the past two years, the following results have been achieved:

> Over 10,000 law enforcement officers in 706 agencies have been trained. Of those, 700 officers, representing 196 law enforcement agencies, have been certified to teach Blue Courage in the field and in their respective agencies. It is this Train-the-Trainer approach that facilitates the rapid spread of Blue Courage principles throughout the country.

> Mr. Nila fostered a dynamic and effective partnership with the International Association of Directors of Law Enforcement Standards and Training (IADLEST) to infuse Blue Courage principles throughout existing recruit and in-service academy curricula – from firearms and tactical to community policing curricula.

> Mr. Nila’s outstanding contributions are reflected in the work and mission of the Department of Justice. In line with DOJ’s strategic goal three (Ensure and Support the Fair, Impartial, Efficient, and Transparent Administration of Justice at the Federal, State, Local, Tribal, and International Levels), Mr. Nila’s work is promoting positive and impactful relationships with state and local law enforcement partners and helping officers learn how to police in the 21st Century.

Blue Courage is a major force in cultivating trust and legitimacy in communities throughout the country. Their partnership with the Bureau of Justice Assistance in the Office of Justice Programs has facilitated a transformation in policing that is anchored in a passion for service. As stated by City of Doral, FL Police Chief Don De Lucca, “Michael is an inspirational leader to all of law enforcement; I’ve personally seen his impact on organizations and how his teachings have developed the leaders of our profession.”


Article: The Dangerous Lie Cop Haters Tell to Neuter Our Police (NY Post)

The dangerous lie cop haters tell to neuter our police

By Eugene O’Donnell October 24, 2016 | 7:58pm | Updated

After a sustained onslaught of negative publicity, you would think that Americans had lost faith in the police, but a recent poll in Philadelphia gives some insights on the regard ordinary people really have for the men and women in blue.

In the City of Brotherly Love, a whopping 72 percent of respondents to a recent Pew poll said they had either “a great deal” or “a good amount” of respect for officers, a year-on-year increase of 5 percent for the city’s peacekeepers. Sixty percent of black and 60 percent of Latino residents expressed the sentiments.

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